Anything Under The Sun

I have always wanted to create my own site - a place where anyone, named or anonymous, who find themselves stuck in a situation, simply needs someone to talk to. I'm no psychologist. Neither do I claim to have the ability to solve problems. But I can listen, not just hear. Most of the time, it takes another set of eyes to see the picture more clearly - or from another perspective.

I'm the glass-half-full type of person. Others see me as gullible or too positive. I don't pay much attention to what other people think of me, really. It's not me being nonchalant. My principle - as long as I'm not stepping on someone else's boundary and I'm not hurting anyone, what others think of me does not bother me.

Now, why did I start this site, you ask? I'm hoping I can share my positivity, to be able to make someone feel better when it seems like everything around you seems to go awry. Don't I have problems of my own? I don't. But not because I'm lucky or blessed or have everything I need. It's because I see life's obstacles as challenges, as gray areas to work on, as opportunities that will make me grow and be a better person.

Who doesn't want to feel happy? They say happiness is subjective but what does that really mean? I'm happy when I get a dose of my favorite frappe but that same frappe makes my sister lose sleep. Does that mean she's unhappy if she takes a dose of it too?

So when you find yourself stuck, talk to me. Let's try to loosen the weave that got you there.